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Dating in Thiruvananthapuram: first dates and weekend trips

Updated · by the SwipeTrip team

Trivandrum is Kerala's green, hilly capital, close to the sea and quieter than its size suggests. First dates here tend to be sunsets on a beach, a walk under old trees at the museum grounds, or a long Kerala meal, and the cliffs of Varkala and the hills of Ponmudi are both an easy trip away.

First date ideas in Thiruvananthapuram

  • Shanghumukham Beach

    Near the airport

    The city's sunset beach, with the large mermaid sculpture on the shore. Busy and cheerful in the evening.

  • Napier Museum and the museum grounds

    Museum Road

    A striking 19th-century museum in shaded grounds next to the zoo, where people walk in the mornings and evenings.

  • Kanakakkunnu Palace grounds

    Near the museum

    Wide lawns and old trees around a palace used for cultural events. Look out for festivals and shows here.

  • Kovalam Lighthouse Beach

    Kovalam

    The crescent beach below the Vizhinjam lighthouse, with cafés along the promenade. Climb the lighthouse for the view.

  • Veli Tourist Village

    Veli

    Where a lagoon meets the sea, with gardens, boating and sculptures. A relaxed afternoon.

  • East Fort and Chalai

    East Fort

    The old fort area around the Padmanabhaswamy Temple and the busy Chalai market. Note the temple's strict dress code and entry rules.

Weekend trips from Thiruvananthapuram

For when a few good dates turn into a plan to go somewhere together.

  • Varkala

    Kerala

    Red cliffs above the beach, cafés along the cliff path and Papanasam beach below. Easy by train or road.

    about 1.5 hours by road or trainOctober to March

  • Poovar

    Kerala

    Backwaters, mangroves and a golden sand bar where the Neyyar river meets the sea, best seen by boat.

    about 1 hour by roadOctober to March

  • Ponmudi

    Kerala

    A hill station up a road of hairpin bends, with tea gardens and cool, misty air.

    about 1.5 to 2 hours by roadSeptember to March

  • Kanyakumari

    Tamil Nadu

    The southern tip of India, with sunrise over the sea and a boat to the Vivekananda Rock Memorial.

    about 2.5 hours by roadOctober to March

  • Neyyar Dam

    Kerala

    A reservoir in the forest at the foot of the Western Ghats, with boating and a wildlife sanctuary.

    about 1 hour by roadSeptember to March

First-date tips for Trivandrum

Kerala gets two monsoons, so it pays to plan around the weather.

  • Watch the rains: The southwest monsoon from June to September and the northeast rains in October and November can wash out beach plans. Keep a museum or café ready.
  • Mind the sea: Currents are strong on the open beaches. Swim only where lifeguards allow it.
  • Share a sadhya: A Kerala meal on a banana leaf, especially around Onam, is a lovely, unhurried lunch date.
  • Plan the way home: Get your own auto or cab and let a friend know your plan.

Questions people ask

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  • What are good first date ideas in Trivandrum?

    A sunset at Shanghumukham, a walk around the Napier Museum grounds, an evening at Kovalam's Lighthouse Beach, or the lagoon at Veli.

  • Where can couples go for a weekend trip from Trivandrum?

    Varkala's cliffs, the Poovar backwaters, the hills at Ponmudi, Neyyar Dam, and Kanyakumari for sunrise at the tip of India.

  • Is it safe to meet a match from a dating app in Trivandrum?

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